The list is a pretty good mix of personality, looks, values and employment status of a potential partner. And since the list is yours you can be as unrealistic as you like. I have honesty on mine, so yes I have a pretty good imagination. My single self being in a very awkward space of wants and needs right now I still apply the mental list to every single man I meet.
Example…
I met a man the other day and even though we are not sexually interested in each other, he was still closely scrutinized.

And so it went on until our day ended. The funny thing about that list is that if you are sexually attracted to a man, that list melts into a puddle of your drool. That list becomes about as useful as a 19 year old date to a pedophile. His hot, who the hell cares if he is employed!
Though since we are now in the year of the ANAL this list has become the damn 10 Commandments presented in PowerPoint with a laser pen and cue cards. Once written down it CANNOT be adjusted! Well I say screw that oh and that guy that does not make it onto the list except for that wave of heat he sends from my knees to my waist. Mmm… Oh yeah, you know which guy I'm taking about! I know that no one advised us on the flexibility of the list, so let me set it straight for you. This is your “Love List” so when in the heat of the moment and that hot guy from editorial wants to jump your bones, who the hell am I to deny you that memorable steamy encounter. Today you’re Mother Theresa and tomorrow you can be Candy (pole dancing to pay for your gran’s hip replacement).

And so it went on until our day ended. The funny thing about that list is that if you are sexually attracted to a man, that list melts into a puddle of your drool. That list becomes about as useful as a 19 year old date to a pedophile. His hot, who the hell cares if he is employed!
Though since we are now in the year of the ANAL this list has become the damn 10 Commandments presented in PowerPoint with a laser pen and cue cards. Once written down it CANNOT be adjusted! Well I say screw that oh and that guy that does not make it onto the list except for that wave of heat he sends from my knees to my waist. Mmm… Oh yeah, you know which guy I'm taking about! I know that no one advised us on the flexibility of the list, so let me set it straight for you. This is your “Love List” so when in the heat of the moment and that hot guy from editorial wants to jump your bones, who the hell am I to deny you that memorable steamy encounter. Today you’re Mother Theresa and tomorrow you can be Candy (pole dancing to pay for your gran’s hip replacement).
My point is very simple! Since the only constant is change its healthy to be a bit flexible on your choices, lists, encounters and what ever the hell else you feel like flexing! This is the one thing I absolutely love about getting older is that my choices are mine and since I sit with the consequences, I may as well try it my way.
So…. Chuck the list and live a little! Have some faith that when you meet Mr 7 out of 15 then you will just know!